Is It Love… Or Is It LIMERENCE?
September 22, 2023
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If you have strong romantic feelings for someone who is unavailable (or just not into you), and you find it almost impossible to stop thinking
Category: Relationships with Others
You Long For A Great and Real Love Because You Are Meant to Have It
October 26, 2022
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So many people who were traumatized as children are haunted by a harsh, empty, loveless feeling – the sense that something HUGE is missing from
New Relationship? Watch Out For These Red Flags
October 5, 2022
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When you’re first dating someone, it can be easy to see only what’s wonderful about them, and to be blind to the red flags in
12 Signs That Someone Could Be a Great Partner For You
September 26, 2022
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I do a lot of teaching about red flags – signs that someone is NOT partner material, that people with a history of trauma often
Why You Keep Playing SMALL
March 12, 2022
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You’re not always aware of it when you’re getting trapped in the sticky web of a romantic manipulator. And it takes a while to hit you – usually after you’ve been knocked off the emotional roller coaster you were riding, where you were clinging until the relationship ended.
The #1 Thing That Holds Back Your Healing
March 3, 2022
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You’re not always aware of it when you’re getting trapped in the sticky web of a romantic manipulator. And it takes a while to hit you – usually after you’ve been knocked off the emotional roller coaster you were riding, where you were clinging until the relationship ended.
10 Things Romantic Manipulators Say
February 11, 2022
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You’re not always aware of it when you’re getting trapped in the sticky web of a romantic manipulator. And it takes a while to hit you – usually after you’ve been knocked off the emotional roller coaster you were riding, where you were clinging until the relationship ended.
10 Trauma-Driven Beliefs that Keep You Single
February 9, 2022
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You may have been told that you needed to “get in touch” with your anger to heal from childhood trauma. For some people, there is probably something freeing about that — for a while anyway.
TRAUMA BONDING Explained
May 16, 2021
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There’s one kind of romantic relationship that I wouldn’t wish on anyone — and that’s the kind that’s been made intense by a trauma bond.
What Happens to CPTSD When You Rush Into Relationships
April 18, 2021
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It is sadly very common that people who grew up neglected and abused by their parents end up either alone or cycling through one life-damaging